Type A girls beware: the holidays can push those of us who try to do it all -- bake, entertain, shop, decorate, parent, work -- to the limit. Just this week, I found myself already taking my own advice (about not making it a DIY holiday) by catering Thanksgiving for my 12 last-minute guests.

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I've got family members that love certain brands (Dad loves Ralph Lauren) so I've been watching for Black Friday deals that feature these brands. Here are some of the best sales online and in stores:

• Ralph Lauren - Friends and Family Sale - 25% off - November 24 - Dec. 7
• Emily Elizabeth Jewelry Get 25% off + free shipping the entire site with code SAVE25 until 11/30
• Bare Necessities (Buy Direct) - Save big on sleepwear and underwear -- lots of buy 1 get one free deals bras and lingerie November 25-30.
• Old Navy Gobblepalooza - Open Thanksgiving Day! 3-Day Event features 50% off outerwear and $15 sweaters for the family in stores.
• Macy's (Buy Direct) Thanksgiving Sale November 26-28. Get savings on over 25,000 items + free shipping on $99+ purchases. Promo code: THANKS.
• Bloomingdales - 25% off cashmere.
• Forzieri (Buy Direct) - Designer goods. Save $25 off any order above $198 Valid Dates: November 25 to December 1. Enter Coupon Code: 943257
• Lane Bryant (Buy Direct) Plus-size women's clothing . 40% off everything through November 30.

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I used to be a diehard Nicole-on-the-red-carpet fan, but her choices lately leave me baffled. Taupe ruffles and pink for a music awards show? Not so sure. And Kate's chest-baring look caused lots of gossip tongues to say she practically had a wardrobe malfunction. The important thing here is that I don't care what anybody but you has to say. Were these fashion risks hits or misses? (Photo Credit: Kevork Djansezian/Getty Images)

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I'm strangely fascinated by women who enjoy strolling casually through the stores and seem like they have nothing better to do than shop. I am not one of those women, even though my job requires me to spend a ridiculous amount of time shopping. I like to get in a store, and get out. Shopping fast = shopping smart in my book. For example, I never shop during peak shopping hours (sorry, Black Friday retailers, but you'll never see me.)

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